It's Personal, It's Private...My Life (5/11/2011)

My life is pretty much an open book when it comes to everyday things. I make videos and talk about stuff that goes on because not only do I find it a way for me to express myself but people are interested in what happens on a daily basis. This is something that I would normally not just throw out there because it is so personal and it involves my direct family, but I became such a strong person after and that is why I want people to know. My situation has not always been glamorous and Fierce like everyone thinks. When it comes down to it this was a sliver of the abuse I went through but it's enough for you to get a picture. ( This is referring to my facebook post this morning) I had so many people message me clueless when I thought much more people knew about it but didn't; and I won't be getting TOO personal because it was very serious and still is but i'm gonna tell everyone the general synopsis of what occurred. Last year I was in a very bad living situation because it was under a roof with my dad. In short, my dad has never accepted who I am as a person & therefore I received the short end of the stick every time. There was an incident one evening where it got very heated in our home & my father ended up getting very abusive, which was nothing new. But it went to a whole new point. While words hurt enough, he proceeded punching my mother directly in the face. After that, I pushed my dad to the ground, immediately defending my mom. After that followed what I thought was the worst night in my entire life.  My dad grabbed his cane & shoved it in the side of my neck. I was kicked in my groin by my own brother and my entire life flashed in front of me... Literally ! My mom finally got to the phone and called 911 & in a matter of 10 minutes (that seemed like 5 hours) we had 20 cop cars on our street as well as the ambulance & fire trucks. I was rushed to the emergency room and my dad was put in jail where he belongs. The most puzzling part of this story is that the next morning my dad was released because he payed the bail & his attorney got him. No matter what he did ( me being a minor at the time) he was released, because in our sick society you get released when you have money. After moving on with our lives and moving away from my hometown it took over a YEAR for him to be convicted. And as of today (May 11, 2011) he was sentenced to 180 days in jail (taking weekends) which accumulates to over a year that he wont have a free weekend. I also have a restraining order against him for 3 years which will be then re-nued at it's first expiration. It's just complete validation ! I haven't been this happy in such a long time, and Justice was FINALLY SERVED ! Haa And Thank you for reading the entire post if you made it this far down haha <3





Stay Fabbb & Fierce,
KANDY PRINCE